Celebrate Golden Wedding Mr. and Mrs. Allen Thomas Bethune, former residents of this
city celebrated their golden wedding anniversary with a large and lovely reception on
Saturday at their country home in Mecklenburg county. Yellow roses, daffodils, and
yellow tapers were used as room decorations. Receiving with the celebrants in the living
room were their children Mr. and Mrs. J. A. Bethune, Mr. and Mrs. T. C. Bethune of Richmond, Va., Mr. and Mrs. J. M. Bethune of Columbia, S. C., Mr. and Mrs E. E.
Bethune, and Miss Frances Bethune.
Mrs. Bethune was gowned in aqua crepe and wore a shoulder bouquet of yellow
rosebuds. Miss Betsy Bethune of Richmond, Va., granddaughter of the couple, kept the
guest register in the gift room, where numerous gifts in gold were displayed. In the
dining room the table was spread with hand-made lace and centered with a three-tier
wedding cake ornamented with yellow roses. A salad plate was served by Misses Susan
and Sarah Frances Bethune and Miss Gerry Genrich, the latter of Columbia, S C. Coffee
was poured by Mrs Edna J. Almand of this city, and Mrs. Jack Drye served punch.
Receiving hours were from 2 in the afternoon to 7 in the evening, and more than 100
guests called to extend congratulations and felicitations. The only absent member of the
family, Mrs. Orin R. Parris of Salt Lake City, Utah, called her parents by long distance
while the reception was in progress. Out-of-town guests were Mrs. Kate McNaull, Mr.
Eugene Brown, Gene and Lorena Brown of Columbia, S.C., Mrs. D. M. Bethune, Mr.
and Mrs. B. L. Cobb, Mrs. R. C. Grant, Richard Grant, Mrs. J. V. Fagan, Mrs. Leonard
King, and Mrs. John McDonald of Hartsville, S. C., Mrs. John Cagle and Hugh Cagle of
Hamlet, Mr. and Mrs Hugh Witherspoon of Maysville, S. C, Mrs. E. Z. Truesdale, Miss
Stella Bethune, and Mrs. M. G. King at Bethune, S. C., the Rev. and Mrs. Neil S.
Truesdale, Rebecca and Althea Truesdale of Newberry, S. C.,
Mrs. Hattie J. Ross, Mrs. A. C. Jones, Mrs. Maude Green, and Miss Margaret Bostie of
Forest City Mrs ttussell Riley of Blacksburg. S. C., Mrs. A. Feuer and Ronald Feuer of
Dallas, Mrs. Maggie Lee, Mr. and Mrs. Curtis Klllough, and Mrs E. B. Austin of
Matthews; Mr and Mrs. John R. Bamett of Huntersville; Mr. and Mrs. M. R. Thomas,
Mr. and Mrs. O. K. Forrester. Worth Jordan, Miss Nancy Jordan, Charlie Ledford, Mlu
Nell Lee. Mrs. Paul Xhyne, Miss Elolse Hesbitt, Mrs tfova Tatham, Mrs. H. M. Webb.
Kr.' and Mrs. Thomas C. Church E Halnes Gregg, Otis L. Peach, and Ur. and Mrs. Bcb
Green of Gas- tonla; Mr. and Mra. Charles Baker of PfnevUle, and Mr. and Mrs Ray
Preslar and Mr.^nd Mra. Hardy Davis of BelmocC
Source: The Gastonia Gazette, Woman's Page 19 April 1950
Note: The above was taken from an OCR rendering as a paid subscription is required to
see the actual document. As such, there are many misspellings, especially in the last
paragraph. -KV
Saturday, December 14, 2013
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
Margaret Letter To Mary July 7, 1984
July 7th 1984
Dear Mary,
We wish you a "Happy Birthday" I remember - Papa took us (me Mac and Louise) down to Aunt May's - at that time she was living in a house across the road, while her "big" home, (on the other side, where it is now) was not completed. Aunt May was always so good to us, and especially if Mama needed her to help with the children. I don't remember Aunt May ever being real provoked at any of us. If she ever said No! don't do that!!!! we knew she wasn't "fooling." If we didn't say, "thank you," and "please at the table, we were corrected and then we got what we asked for. If we didn't, (like Mac she wouldn't say either -she had to leave the table without getting what she asked for.
You was a "beautiful baby" I thought. "Ole Aunt Delia" was with Mama- She alway called Mama, "Babe" She had looked after Mama when a child. She and her husband lived on the Chesterfield Road in their own house and they would cut thru our field to get to the road in front of our home. and I remember, we little girls always knew when Douglas was coming, he always smoked a pipe and we could "smell it." I was allowed to "hold you" if Id sit right in the low rocking chair, that Mama always sat in when she would rock the "little ones" to sleep at night. We had a nice comfortable Home to live in. It was very impressive two-story home. Beautiful setting under the Big oak Trees and the lovely Magnolia. We each had a porch to have our "play house home" in - with our dolls we'd (J.K. Me, Mac & Louise) go visiting each other - our greetings were: How are you "Miss Kate" today - She'd say the same each of us was "Miss Kate", I don't remember how we all decided on the one name. (JK was never called Kate, only when we were "playing house."
I soon tired of dolls and I wanted to hold you as I was almost eight in August 12th after you were born.
Mama sewed for all of us, except Janie Kate - Aunt May and Grandma looked after her.
Janie Kate 1898 was born at the old Thomas home at the Cross Road. The later Papa had a job with A.M. McNair at Clyde S.C. it was then a post office. Later, before I was born Aug 12th 1900 we lived at Clyde S.C. after I was born. Papa was Mr McNair's bookkeeper
Mama and Papa and J.K. + me lived in house across the road from the McNair Home which was a big house up on a high ? Hill. They had a daughter, that J.K. loved to play with and her name was "Bessie" -My! I was a "little" baby and named: Margaret Elizabeth, which was too much name for a two year old (J.K.) So she cried and begged to let her call me by her friends name; So thats how I got that name Bessie, which I didn't like as I grew older - The other sisters had names of relatives and Bessie wasn't a relative name - So I always loved my real name - but was never called either name "Margaret or Elizabeth", until John and I went to a "Retirement Home" at Myrtle Beach S.C. then I announced my name Margaret. Have been called this for over three years. It seemed more "elegant" to me. All of my Legal papers - Insurance all business transactions was Margaret Elizabeth our Marriage License of course too.
I was so happy when Patricia's baby girl was born and she had you, Mary, the proud grandmother, to call me and tell me that the new baby girl was given one of my names - "Elizabeth" - Made me feel so proud that some one in the "Family" (Bethune) would carry on the same name of our great grandmother, her name was Elizabeth Reeves. Mama told me I was named after my two great grandmothers.
Mary have you told this to Elizabeth or Lisa. I'd love to know my name sake, maybe some times this Summer!!!
Mary, you were named for Papa sister Aunt "Mary Yarborough" and Aunt Mary Thomas which was "Aunt May". Mama's sister Sally Louise was named for Aunt Sally, Papa's sister, McCaskill. Janie {Catherine + Papa's mother Kate was named for both grandmothers, and Aunt Kate McNaull Papa's sister. Mac was named for Papa and Mama. Emma Malcolm.
Last, but not leas - when I M.E. was eleven years old, another baby girl - her name is Thornwell Faye - name for Mama's brother Thornwell Thomas. He was older than Mama and he died when his two sons (were small) Thornwell Norwood Thomas (Aunt Sallie's maiden name - and Hamilton Thomas named for one grandfather Thomas. Faye was the last of the girls - she ___ the older sisters thought she was "spoiled". But any way she was loved very much by all of us. She knew then, that Mama "____" for her to come now.
Well! Mary I know you are wondering why I've written this to you. Maybe you'd like to have it copied and give copies to your children. Hows that for a Happy Birthday present?? Hope you have many more. You have a wonderful family and you taught them the Gospel and they are a joy and a great pleasure to you. (You had a big decision to make early in your Life about you and your family). A beautiful daughter and two good looking sons. They are all true to the gospel that you taught to them.
Their families are to be proud of. I know you can truely love them and be very proud of the good decisions you made many years ago. and now I'm thinking of the "big" Bethune Reunion we had together - and how your family of good looking boys and girls. I've enjoyed remembering that Reunion - our family John & mine, was a very small one.
I'm so glad you and all your family could come back to the "place" where our Bethune began. Oh!: if Mama and Papa could have seen all of us. I know they would have been proud of their "Six Daughters" - and their families.
Then our last Reunion of the Six Sisters - and some of their family, is well to be remember. It was such a "short time" to be together our last time, Before we had to part with one one of the Sisters, and the Circle was broken. She was too young to die, I heard her lonely daughter, Carolyn make that remark the day of her mothers funeral. It was such a sad time for all of us. Then we were all together again. She left behind those attractive grandchildren and their Mother who has made such a good mother for them. They all loved their Granny so much and she loved them.
I hate to stop writing on "this sad note" but I've never written anything about Louise unless I cried! Never had an idea that she'd go before I did. Guess she was more prepared to go, than I.
Hope I'll get to see you this Summer. ___ disappoint me & all of us.
Love to you and all your family.
Bessie or Margaret.
Dear Mary,
We wish you a "Happy Birthday" I remember - Papa took us (me Mac and Louise) down to Aunt May's - at that time she was living in a house across the road, while her "big" home, (on the other side, where it is now) was not completed. Aunt May was always so good to us, and especially if Mama needed her to help with the children. I don't remember Aunt May ever being real provoked at any of us. If she ever said No! don't do that!!!! we knew she wasn't "fooling." If we didn't say, "thank you," and "please at the table, we were corrected and then we got what we asked for. If we didn't, (like Mac she wouldn't say either -she had to leave the table without getting what she asked for.
You was a "beautiful baby" I thought. "Ole Aunt Delia" was with Mama- She alway called Mama, "Babe" She had looked after Mama when a child. She and her husband lived on the Chesterfield Road in their own house and they would cut thru our field to get to the road in front of our home. and I remember, we little girls always knew when Douglas was coming, he always smoked a pipe and we could "smell it." I was allowed to "hold you" if Id sit right in the low rocking chair, that Mama always sat in when she would rock the "little ones" to sleep at night. We had a nice comfortable Home to live in. It was very impressive two-story home. Beautiful setting under the Big oak Trees and the lovely Magnolia. We each had a porch to have our "play house home" in - with our dolls we'd (J.K. Me, Mac & Louise) go visiting each other - our greetings were: How are you "Miss Kate" today - She'd say the same each of us was "Miss Kate", I don't remember how we all decided on the one name. (JK was never called Kate, only when we were "playing house."
I soon tired of dolls and I wanted to hold you as I was almost eight in August 12th after you were born.
Mama sewed for all of us, except Janie Kate - Aunt May and Grandma looked after her.
Janie Kate 1898 was born at the old Thomas home at the Cross Road. The later Papa had a job with A.M. McNair at Clyde S.C. it was then a post office. Later, before I was born Aug 12th 1900 we lived at Clyde S.C. after I was born. Papa was Mr McNair's bookkeeper
Mama and Papa and J.K. + me lived in house across the road from the McNair Home which was a big house up on a high ? Hill. They had a daughter, that J.K. loved to play with and her name was "Bessie" -My! I was a "little" baby and named: Margaret Elizabeth, which was too much name for a two year old (J.K.) So she cried and begged to let her call me by her friends name; So thats how I got that name Bessie, which I didn't like as I grew older - The other sisters had names of relatives and Bessie wasn't a relative name - So I always loved my real name - but was never called either name "Margaret or Elizabeth", until John and I went to a "Retirement Home" at Myrtle Beach S.C. then I announced my name Margaret. Have been called this for over three years. It seemed more "elegant" to me. All of my Legal papers - Insurance all business transactions was Margaret Elizabeth our Marriage License of course too.
I was so happy when Patricia's baby girl was born and she had you, Mary, the proud grandmother, to call me and tell me that the new baby girl was given one of my names - "Elizabeth" - Made me feel so proud that some one in the "Family" (Bethune) would carry on the same name of our great grandmother, her name was Elizabeth Reeves. Mama told me I was named after my two great grandmothers.
Mary have you told this to Elizabeth or Lisa. I'd love to know my name sake, maybe some times this Summer!!!
Mary, you were named for Papa sister Aunt "Mary Yarborough" and Aunt Mary Thomas which was "Aunt May". Mama's sister Sally Louise was named for Aunt Sally, Papa's sister, McCaskill. Janie {Catherine + Papa's mother Kate was named for both grandmothers, and Aunt Kate McNaull Papa's sister. Mac was named for Papa and Mama. Emma Malcolm.
Last, but not leas - when I M.E. was eleven years old, another baby girl - her name is Thornwell Faye - name for Mama's brother Thornwell Thomas. He was older than Mama and he died when his two sons (were small) Thornwell Norwood Thomas (Aunt Sallie's maiden name - and Hamilton Thomas named for one grandfather Thomas. Faye was the last of the girls - she ___ the older sisters thought she was "spoiled". But any way she was loved very much by all of us. She knew then, that Mama "____" for her to come now.
Well! Mary I know you are wondering why I've written this to you. Maybe you'd like to have it copied and give copies to your children. Hows that for a Happy Birthday present?? Hope you have many more. You have a wonderful family and you taught them the Gospel and they are a joy and a great pleasure to you. (You had a big decision to make early in your Life about you and your family). A beautiful daughter and two good looking sons. They are all true to the gospel that you taught to them.
Their families are to be proud of. I know you can truely love them and be very proud of the good decisions you made many years ago. and now I'm thinking of the "big" Bethune Reunion we had together - and how your family of good looking boys and girls. I've enjoyed remembering that Reunion - our family John & mine, was a very small one.
I'm so glad you and all your family could come back to the "place" where our Bethune began. Oh!: if Mama and Papa could have seen all of us. I know they would have been proud of their "Six Daughters" - and their families.
Then our last Reunion of the Six Sisters - and some of their family, is well to be remember. It was such a "short time" to be together our last time, Before we had to part with one one of the Sisters, and the Circle was broken. She was too young to die, I heard her lonely daughter, Carolyn make that remark the day of her mothers funeral. It was such a sad time for all of us. Then we were all together again. She left behind those attractive grandchildren and their Mother who has made such a good mother for them. They all loved their Granny so much and she loved them.
I hate to stop writing on "this sad note" but I've never written anything about Louise unless I cried! Never had an idea that she'd go before I did. Guess she was more prepared to go, than I.
Hope I'll get to see you this Summer. ___ disappoint me & all of us.
Love to you and all your family.
Bessie or Margaret.
Saturday, December 7, 2013
Daniel Malcolm Bethune Life Story
My great grandfather, Neil Bethune, left Scotland in the latter part of the eighteenth
century and settled in Montgomery
County , North Carolina .
My grandfather, Daniel Bethune, born 19th of December, 1799, came down to
Kershaw County, South Carolina, when a young man and married Christian
McCaskill 18 Feb 1841 who was born in Scotland Apr. 1810. The large majority of the descendants live in
that same section of the County which is known as Bethune, S.C. having been given
that name about 1900 in honor of my father at a reception in Richmond, Va. for
that purpose by the Seaboard Air Line
Railroad.
My father Daniel Murdock Bethune was born in Kershaw County
20 Feb. 1845, married Esther Catherine McCaskill born in 1847 in Chesterfield County near Jefferson S.C. 16 Jan.1868.
I am their oldest child born 19 Dec 1868. I was christened in Presbyterian
Church. They had 2 sons and 4 daughters Dan Sallie Mary Maggie Al & Kate.
My mother died at birth of youngest—Kate—at age 32. I was only 12 and this was
my first real grief. I felt her loss keenly.
I had little schooling – went 3 years to a one teacher
school ten weeks each year. In my late teens, however I went to Atlanta Ga.
with money I had saved from working and took a Business course. I was offered a
job at the school but refused and came home after I finished.
Our home was of moderate means as result of War between the
States. Sherman
burned nearly everything they couldn’t carry away. My father was in S.C. House
of Representatives during Reconstruction Days and he said there were Negroes in
there couldn’t read or write their names. He also fought in the War – went in
at age sixteen. He said the South went through some terrible times during that
period. My father was left several thousand acres of land by his great Aunt
Katie McCaskill and was land poor with no slaves to work it. Some families
stayed on with us though.
My grandmother’s people –McCaskills – were cattle raisers,
had turpentine business and were rice planters. My father grew rice and
irrigated the field ____ creek. Cotton was the main crop. My father was a
devout Presbyterian and taught us the Catechism and Bible at home. We had
family prayers morning and night. My home tasks were attending sheep cattle and
farming. I had a pet _____.
(As told to Mac)
(P.S. by Louise) I married Emma Jane Thomas 6 Sept 1897 at
her home on a Monday morning. We met at Pine Tree Presbyterian Church in Kershaw County while she was visiting. She
winked at me during a prayer and our courtship began. We lived in or near Bethune,
_________, & Clyde before moving to my
wife’s homeplace after her mother’s death. By that time we had 3 children
(girls) and 3 more were born later - Janie Kate, Bessie, Mac, Louise, Mary, and
Faye.
Friday, December 6, 2013
Charlotte News Article 2-24-1953
THE CHARLOTTE
NEWS
ON AUG. 30, 1886
Eyewitness Tells Of Judgment Day On South Carolina ’s Coastal Plain
By BILL WILLIAMS
GASTONIA — Lo, they thought the hour of judgment was upon them.
It was on the night of August 30, 1886, when an earthquake ripped throughCharleston , S. C., tearing
trenches in the streets and rocking houses back and forth like small ships at
sea. The wind sounded like a roaring herd of jet fighters.
As the earth shook and trees trembled, it had company in the many frightened Negroes and white folk.
“I remember that night just as well as if it were last night,” said “Col.” A. T. Bethune, a resident of theBerryhill
School section in Mecklenburg County .
“I was down at the barn, helping some of the men with their chores when the first blast of wind warned us of a storm.”
Colonel Bethune, the son of a man who owned three plantations was only 10 years old at the time of the earthquake, but his vivid recollection of the catastrophe brings gasps of awe from listeners as he relates the happenings of that night.
GASTONIA — Lo, they thought the hour of judgment was upon them.
It was on the night of August 30, 1886, when an earthquake ripped through
As the earth shook and trees trembled, it had company in the many frightened Negroes and white folk.
“I remember that night just as well as if it were last night,” said “Col.” A. T. Bethune, a resident of the
“I was down at the barn, helping some of the men with their chores when the first blast of wind warned us of a storm.”
Colonel Bethune, the son of a man who owned three plantations was only 10 years old at the time of the earthquake, but his vivid recollection of the catastrophe brings gasps of awe from listeners as he relates the happenings of that night.
WIND CAME FIRST
“We were living about 50 or 60 miles from Charleston ," he continued, “and the wind was
blowing from that direction. Some of the colored folks were uneasy about it,
but dad just told them there was nothing to worry about. That wasn’t enough
assurance for them, though, especially after the first tremor set the houses rocking
and the trees waving.”
According to the colonel (he picked up the nickname somewhere),
workers fell to their knees and began to pray. Horses began to neigh and mules
began to bray. Dogs barked and chickens, in frightened excitement, ran from one
part of the yard to the other.
“All the workers thought that judgment day was upon them”, he went on.
“There were quite a few fellows across the creek who wanted to be with everyone else on the farm. They picked up some pine torches, lit them and started toward the farm. I remember one old fellow— his name was Shadrach— told all his children and the other folks around him to kneel down. He was going to pray.
Well, just about the time he started to kneel down himself, the wind blew hard and the window came open that gave a plain view of the Negroes coming across the creek. Carrying torches they looked exactly like somebody walking across the River Jordan.
“Well, anyhow, when Shadrach looked up and saw the torches, he shook all over and said:
“All the workers thought that judgment day was upon them”, he went on.
“There were quite a few fellows across the creek who wanted to be with everyone else on the farm. They picked up some pine torches, lit them and started toward the farm. I remember one old fellow— his name was Shadrach— told all his children and the other folks around him to kneel down. He was going to pray.
Well, just about the time he started to kneel down himself, the wind blew hard and the window came open that gave a plain view of the Negroes coming across the creek. Carrying torches they looked exactly like somebody walking across the River Jordan.
“Well, anyhow, when Shadrach looked up and saw the torches, he shook all over and said:
“Ain’t no use to pray now. Here comes the fire.! You’ve never seen a
man look so relieved in all your life when he found out that the lights were
torches carried by workers.”
One man, said Colonel Bethune, had the idea that judgment day would come in the morning.
"When the earth shook once,” Bethune continued, “he shouted out, ‘Lordy, I didn’t know that judgment day was coming at night. I thought it’d be morning.’”
By next day, the tremors had ceased and the wind had quit blowing. All over the farm, however, branches and leaves from trees, shredded by the violent force of the wind, had piled up in huge mounds.
“My dad wanted to clean up the mess as soon as possible,” the colonel went on. “He sent a man by the name of Daniel Jackson over to one of the rice fields to get some hoes and rakes. Well, you know how some of these roots and gum, and stuff catches on fire and smokes — sometimes months at a time.
When Jackson got over there and saw the fields smoking like they were on fire, he high-tailed it back to the house, leaving the hoes and rakes behind. He came running up to my dad and said: “Boss, we don’t need any hoes. It’s judgment day already.’
Colonel Bethune, now an employee of the Carter Traveler Company inGastonia , said his father
once owned three plantations.
“He never wanted to make money, though,” the watchman at Carter’s went on.
"When he made money, he invested it in other things. When he sold something, he practically gave it away. For instance, he once sold 1,400 acres of land of $1,100. I bought 600 acres from him once for $600”
One man, said Colonel Bethune, had the idea that judgment day would come in the morning.
"When the earth shook once,” Bethune continued, “he shouted out, ‘Lordy, I didn’t know that judgment day was coming at night. I thought it’d be morning.’”
By next day, the tremors had ceased and the wind had quit blowing. All over the farm, however, branches and leaves from trees, shredded by the violent force of the wind, had piled up in huge mounds.
“My dad wanted to clean up the mess as soon as possible,” the colonel went on. “He sent a man by the name of Daniel Jackson over to one of the rice fields to get some hoes and rakes. Well, you know how some of these roots and gum, and stuff catches on fire and smokes — sometimes months at a time.
When Jackson got over there and saw the fields smoking like they were on fire, he high-tailed it back to the house, leaving the hoes and rakes behind. He came running up to my dad and said: “Boss, we don’t need any hoes. It’s judgment day already.’
Colonel Bethune, now an employee of the Carter Traveler Company in
“He never wanted to make money, though,” the watchman at Carter’s went on.
"When he made money, he invested it in other things. When he sold something, he practically gave it away. For instance, he once sold 1,400 acres of land of $1,100. I bought 600 acres from him once for $600”
PEOPLE LIKED NAME
It was because of the elder Mr. Bethune’s generosity that the name of Lynchwood, S. C., was changed to Bethune. His philanthropy made the people of that little town see fit to change its name to honor Mr. Bethune.
Colonel Bethune is married to the former Eva Ross ofBlacksburg , S. C. He is 76 years old.
It was because of the elder Mr. Bethune’s generosity that the name of Lynchwood, S. C., was changed to Bethune. His philanthropy made the people of that little town see fit to change its name to honor Mr. Bethune.
Colonel Bethune is married to the former Eva Ross of
Note: Allen Thomas "Colonel" Bethune's father was Daniel Murdock Bethune.
Tuesday, December 3, 2013
Emma Bethune 1938 Letter to Mary Hucks
Tuesday night -
My Dear Mary,
Emma Jane Thomas Bethune Life Story
I, Emma Jane (Thomas) Bethune was born 24 Oct. 1872 at Thomas' Cross Roads in Darlington County, S.C. My father, David Hamilton Thomas was born 11 Sept. 1820 in Darlington Co. S.C. and died 9 Feb. 1897 at Thomas' Cross Roads. My mother, Jane Elizabeth Reaves, was born 9 Nov. 1835 in Darlington Co. S.C. and died 11 Feb. 1904 at Thomas' Cross Roads.
My father and mother were married 15 Mar. 1866, but they had both been married before and each had a child. My father had a daughter, Mary Thomas, who was then 7 years old and my mother had a son, John Ervin McLure age 5 years. After they had been married several years they would jokingly say - "My child, your child, and our children." They had 3 children. My brother Hamilton Thornwell was born 21 Feb. 1867 and died 23 Nov. 1910. My sister Lula was born 15 Oct. 1868 and died 11 months later. We were a devoted family, not feeling that we were step brothers and sisters.
My father was a big landowner and farmer as his father before him, however after the war between the States he had only land as his slaves had been freed, for whom he had paid high prices for years before. Sherman's troops came through and camped a short distance from our home and they took all the stock, food of every kind - in fact they left the home unburned because my stepsister, Mary, was at home alone with a mammy and the mammy got her to beg the officer in charge to spare her home. They had a struggle in the years following the war, but kept their land which had been in their families since granted to them by King of England.
I went to a one teacher school and when in my teens I would help the teacher. One of my last ones was Katie McKinnion,who later married A.Mortimer McNair, who later became a prominent business man in Hartsville, S.C. In Sept. 1891, I went to Greenville Female College for women at Greenville, S.C. I did not go back the following year, as my grandmother Reaves, who lived with us, was ill and died 20 Oct. 1892.
On 6 Sept. 1897, I married Daniel Malcolm Bethune from Kershaw Co. S.C. at Pine Tree Presbyterian Church. I winked at him during a prayer and met him after the service. We were married later and lived over there. When my mother died in 1904 we had three daughters -- Janie Kate, Bessie, and Mac. I fell heir to my mother's home, so we moved there to live in Darlington County where three more daughters were born --Louise, Mary and Faye.
My father was a very religious man and was a devoted member of Mt. Elon Baptist Church. My mother was a Presbyterian and they would go to her church one Sunday and to his the next. I joined the Baptist Church, but in Jan. 1915, my husband joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormons), so May 21, 1917 four of my daughters and I were baptized and confirmed members of the same church.
In July 1919 we moved to Hartsville for better schools and lived there until January 1930 and we moved back to our home at Thomas' Cross Roads. Five of my daughters were married there and I had four grandchildren. At different times all the children lived with us for a while and then we were finally left alone as the sixth daughter had married.
20 June 1940, my husband died with cancer of the stomach. He was diagnosed at Duke Hospital in N.C. but died at home. How lonely I was and how I missed him. Our path hadn't been smooth all the time, but we had so much to be thankful for. In about a year, I went to Hartsville to live with my daughter, Louise. I started to going to church meetings regularly, especially to Sunday School and Relief Society and I enjoyed them and by studying learned more about the Gospel. I have and have had for long time faith in ordinance of healing by the Priesthood, as I have seen the Power manifested a number of time.
P.S. (By Louise)
My mother visited each child regularly and especially when needed to help out. She was at home in any kitchen. She died 3 Nov. 1953 in Hartsville with cancer of bone. She suffered greatly and was sick about six months.
P.S. (By Louise)
My mother visited each child regularly and especially when needed to help out. She was at home in any kitchen. She died 3 Nov. 1953 in Hartsville with cancer of bone. She suffered greatly and was sick about six months.
Monday, December 2, 2013
Patricia Sheranian Christmas 2009 note
I was born in the same Thomas Home
that had been my grandmother’s childhood home where my aunts and my mother were
born also.
My Great Aunt May never married. I remember her and her stories of the Civil War. She would let me sleep in her bed once in a while. It was very high and she was very small not much taller than I was as a child, we both needed steps to get into the bed which was made of feathers. It was wonderfully soft and deep. She was precious in frills and lace.
Great Aunt May’s house was about a long city block from my grandparents home, the
The Bethune sisters all married.
Janie Kate Bethune Grant had one son
Emma Malcolm “Mac” Bethune Fagan had a daughter and a son.
Margaret Elizabeth “Bessie” Bethune Cagle had two sons
Sally Louise Bethune Cobb had one daughter
Mary Lucille Bethune Hucks had one daughter and two sons
Thornwell Faye Bethune Crossley had one son and three daughters
We spent most holidays together at our grandparent’s home as children and teens. We spent summers with aunts, uncles, cousins, parents and grandparents often at the
When Papa was baptized a member of The Church of Jesus
Christ of Lattergiay Saints it was early in the year 1917 in January. He was
baptized in the Clyde Pond. Soon after, five of his daughters were baptized and
eventually his wife Emma Jane Thomas Bethune was baptized also.
His daughter, Janie Kate, died not having been baptized into The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints but that has now been done. Kent Vorkink my son is doing some research on past relatives so the families can be sealed together in the
After my family moved to
My youth was made up of many family “memorable memories” and “traditions” for which I will ever be grateful and thankful.
May Christ bless you and your family and may your Christmas be filled with “memorable memories” and may you cherish each and every one!
Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night
I wish I was with you to squeeze you tight
I wish I was with you to squeeze you tight
Love
Patricia Hucks Vorkink Sheranian
2009
Margaret Elizabeth (Bessie) Bethune Cagle "Life Account"
“Once upon a time, Man meets Lady at a church meeting (out
from the little town of Bethune
SC ) His name was Daniel Malcolm
Bethune and he lived in the Bethune Plantation which town was named for
Daniel’s father whose name was Daniel Murdock Bethune. The lady’s name was Emma
Jane Thomas who lived in Darlington County which was joining counties with Kershaw City where the Bethune’s lived.
Emma Jane lived about ten miles from the Bethune Plantation at a “crossroad section” in
Emma Jane Thomas and Daniel Malcolm Bethune were married on Sept 7, 1897 in the
Emma Jane’s mother was married to McLure first time. They had the one son Erwin, uncle Doctor McLure. He grew up and practiced medicine in that area. Emma Jane’s father married Shields first time. They had one daughter Mary Elizabeth Amanda our Aunt May.
Daniel Malcolm Bethune was the oldest child of Catherine
Margaret McCaskill and Daniel Murdock Bethune. His four sisters were Sally,
Mary, Margaret Elizabeth and Catherine (Kate) the youngest one and one brother
Allen. All of theses families were dear to me. There were our aunts and uncles
and their children, our first cousins.
Daniel and Emma had a daughter born August 23, 1898 her name was Jane Kate (named for both grandmothers)
Then another daughter Margaret Elizabeth born August 12, 1900 named for both great grandmothers.
Another daughter, the third child, named Emma Malcolm for her mother and father nicknamed “Mac” who was born October 7, 1901 the only blue eyed daughter. We the three oldest daughters were born in different places, Janie Kate arrived at the
Then Sally Louise was born at Thomas Cross Roads in the Thomas’ new home (our mother’s home when she was 12 or 13 years old.) I can remember her arrival. We three children were taken by Papa to stay at Aunt May’s home, then when we came back home our little sister named Sally Louise was there. We laughed and were so happy to have another baby sister, Her birthday March 7. 1905, she was named for Papa’s sister our Aunt Sally McCaskill.
Then on July 7, 1908 another daughter arrived named Mary Lucille named for Papa’s sister our Aunt Mary Yarbough. I was so glad I could “look after’ her as I was soon to be eight years old. She was lots of fun to play with when Mama would let me.
Then on September 1, 1911 another brown eyed daughter was born. I was old enough to “look after” Thornwell Faye, named for Mama’s brother. These three last to be born all were born in the Thomas Home where our mother lived from 13 years old until she was married September 7, 1 897.
This was a lovely two story home with big oak trees
surrounding the home and a big magnolia tree on the left side of the house. We
girls had swings in the oak trees and climbed the magnolia. I got to the bottom
limb and I kept watch over the younger girls that I was afraid they would fall
and get hurt. On the right side of the yard was a very deep well and a building
called “the well house.” We were not allowed to play around the well. We had a
happy home life. We all went to school to a graded school which was not far
from our home. This was called Clyde School as we little girls were old enough
we went to school there except Thornwell Faye, she was the baby and didn’t want
to grow up, so she never went to the school there.
On rainy mornings Papa never let us walk to school, he got the scurry or buggy out and “hitched” the horse to it and would come back for us in the afternoon if it was still raining. When summer came Mama was real busy sewing our summer clothes and we got new hair ribbons and sashes to wear on our new Sunday dresses.
We always went to Bethune to visit our cousins and aunts and uncles in summer. We had ten or twelve first cousins we’d visit. Something new for us to go up town in Bethune as our home was in the country. Sometimes our “city” cousins came to visit us. They enjoyed our fruit orchards. We had all kinds of fruits and a big garden that Papa worked every summer so we had such good vegetables and Aunt May had a big cherry orchard which she let us climb up the trees to eat cherries.
Our oldest sister Janie Kate lived with Aunt May at Thomas Cross Roads which wasn’t very far from the home where the five of us lived with Mama and Papa. Aunt May loved Janie Kate “like her very own”. She had more clothes etc than we had but I’m glad I lived in the home with Mama and Papa. Aunt May was so good to all of the other five children when Mama would let us go down to Aunt May’s house. She had games for us to play. She had a gentle horse named Nellie that we could ride. Some of us would fall off but never really got hurt and a dog named
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